Wednesday, September 12, 2012

How Do you spend your time?


(via The Savings Wife)
Imagine there is a bank account that credits your account each morning with $86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day. Every evening, the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course? Each of us has such a bank…

What is your Response When Bad things Happen?


(via The Savings Wife)
A Study of Job! This is one of the Books of the Bible people reference when Bad things happen.   Lets take a closer look at what is happening.    Chapter 1:  The book starts out telling us about Job.  He's a happy man, has lots of land, children and he fears God.  He shuns evil.   For this reason…

Friday, August 3, 2012

Why do Christians leave the Church or decide they are atheist?

As I was talking to a man the other day, I wasn't shocked to hear he grew up in the church and decided he was better off without the church or God for that matter.  He was angry and bitter towards the church and God's Word.  As I thought about the situation, I realized, there are many who walk away from God.   Why is that you ask?   The answer is rather simple, lets look at the scripture!
Matthew 131That same day Jesus went out of the house and sat by the lake. 2Such large crowds gathered around him that he got into a boat and sat in it, while all the people stood on the shore.3Then he told them many things in parables, saying: “A farmer went out to sow his seed. 4As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path, and the birds came and ate it up. 5Some fell on rocky places, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly, because the soil was shallow. 6But when the sun came up, the plants were scorched, and they withered because they had no root. 7Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the plants. 8Still other seed fell on good soil, where it produced a crop—a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown.
18“Listen then to what the parable of the sower means: 19When anyone hears the message about the kingdom and does not understand it, the evil one comes and snatches away what was sown in his heart. This is the seed sown along the path. 20The one who received the seed that fell on rocky places is the man who hears the word and at once receives it with joy. 21But since he has no root, he lasts only a short time. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, he quickly falls away. 22The one who received the seed that fell among the thorns is the man who hears the word, but the worries of this life and the deceitfulness of wealth choke it, making it unfruitful. 23But the one who received the seed that fell on good soil is the man who hears the word and understands it. He produces a crop, yielding a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown.”
The Answer:  There are 4 types of Soil!

1.  Those who don't understand
              Notice the evil one takes away what was sown in his heart.  These are not people who have not heard the message of God these are people who had the word of God sown in their heart. They just don't get what it's about.  They may even pretend to be of God and went to church out of obedience to parents or tradition.   They went through the motions.
2.   Those who fall away after receiving it with Joy!
               For example those who hear it as a child but they don't put it to use.  They don't apply it.  The read the Bible and see it as face value not something that can change their lives.  They may think it's great but for someone else.  They see God is only a short term answer.
3.   Those who fall away after the world and because of trouble.
               These are the people where God is not part of their everyday lives.  They fall in love with the world.   Those who sin is more attractive than what the Bible has to say.   Those who lose a loved one and cannot forgive God.  Those who separate from God instead of coming to him in times of trouble.  There desires rule them.
4.  The last is the Good soil that produces a crop!  


What does the good crop look like?
1.  They practice the fruit of the spirit
2.  They spend every minute they can in church
3.  They serve in the church and outside of the church
4.  They Tithe  (at least 10% usually more)
5.  They Trust God for their needs and for their choices in life.
6.  They live Holy Lives.  They are set apart, different from the world.
7.  They choose Love instead of Hate, Peace instead of War.
8.   When people meet them they know they are different and God is large part of their life.  They speak of him often and pray often.
9.   They have a relationship with God.
10.  They memorize scripture and God's words often replace their own.

What can you do for those who have fallen away?
1.  Pray
2.  Be the example
3.  Share Gods Goodness
4.  Serve them
5.  Invite them to church
6.  Share Gods word with them
But most importantly "Love" them!  

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Love, the most important.

Many people today view Love as just a feeling. Some confuse it with Lust. Some dismiss their love for another person as a conversation gets heated. We have all said things to other people not for the purpose of love but for the purpose of saying, I'm right and your not. So how do we keep ourselves in check? Let's start with some Scripture.
1 Corinthians 13:12: Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
Romans 5:8: But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
We must follow God's example.   His loves shows in his motives and his actions.

Love will show in your motives:
1 Timmothy 1:3-5 As I urged you when I went into Macedonia, stay there in Ephesus so that you may command certain men not to teach false doctrines any longer nor to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies. These promote controversies rather than God's work--which is by faith. The goal of this command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.
They had something to say but they had to examine there motives and see if they were doing is with love. They looked at three things to determine this.

1. Pure Heart: A pure heart is one that does not have any additional motives. To manipulate, to defend it's self or to hurt.

2. Good Conscience: Can you say it and know it is the "right" thing to say. If your a Christian than the Holy Spirit will provide the words for you. You will know it is what God would want you to say. The Bible will also line up with what you are saying. For example, I say to my kids when they are hiding something they don't want me to see, "Hiding is lying". The Biblical example is Adam and Eve hiding from God when they are doing something they know they shouldn't be doing.

3. Sincere Faith: A sincere faith is a faith that is genuine, not a pretend faith. It Thanks God, serves, prays, longs to tell others of Christ. A sincere faith will be a faith that Obeys and Trusts.
2 Timothy 1: 3: I thank God, whom I serve, as my forefathers did, with a clear conscience, as night and day I constantly remember you in my prayers. Recalling your tears, I long to see you, so that I may be filled with joy. I have been reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also. For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline.
Love will show in your actions:
1 Corthians 13:3 If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
Again love is more than just actions it goes back to Pure Heart, Good Conscience and Sincere Faith. After you have examined your motives you can examine your actions.

1. Love is patient: By definition, patience is an ability or willingness to suppress restlessness or annoyance when confronted with delay: to have patience with a slow learner.

2. Love is Kind: Kind means considerate, helpful, or tolerant (not of sin and false teaching)
Revelation 2:2 "I know your works, and your toil and perseverance, and that you can't tolerate evil men, and have tested those who call themselves apostles, and they are not, and found them false.
3. Love does not Envy: a feeling of discontent or covetousness with regard toanother's advantages, success, possessions

4. Love does not Boast: to speak with exaggeration and excessive pride, especiallyabout oneself.
2 Corinthians 10:17 But "he who boasts, let him boast in the Lord."
5. Love is not Proud: having, or showing a high opinion of one's own importance, or superiority.
Matthew 23:12: For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.
6. Love is not Rude: rough in manners or behavior

7. Love is not Self-seeking: the seeking of one's own interest or selfish ends

8: Love is not easily angered: moderate or self-restrained

9: Love keeps no record of wrongs: Forgives as God forgives
Colossians 3:13: Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
10: Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with Truth: Does not find pleasure in un-pure things.

11: Love protects: to defend or guard from attack, invasion, loss, annoyance

12: Love trusts: confident expectation of something

13: Love always hopes: the feeling that what is wanted can be had or that events will turn out for the best:

14: Love always Perserves: to persist in anything undertaken; maintain a purpose inspite of difficulty, obstacles, or discouragement; continue steadfastly

15: Love never ends: Without end, stopping.

Thursday, January 5, 2012

What the bible says about Judging others.....

We have all heard the "Christians should not judge", however let me show you the rest of the verse.
Matthew 7:1-6"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye. "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces.
This is one of the hardest lessons to learn as a Christian because this is not the only teaching on this subject.   Many people quote the first part but ignore the part that those who judge are called to clean up their act first then help others do the same.   The judgement is not for looking at people outside of Christ but for helping your brothers and sisters in Christ.  It's not based on what you look like or outside appendices.   It is done to help others follow the command of Christ.    Lets look at a few more examples.
Matthew 18:15-17  "If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over.  But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that 'every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.' If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector.
2 Thessalonians 3:6-9In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, we command you, brothers, to keep away from every brother who is idle and does not live according to the teaching you received from us. For you yourselves know how you ought to follow our example. We were not idle when we were with you, nor did we eat anyone's food without paying for it. On the contrary, we worked night and day, laboring and toiling so that we would not be a burden to any of you. We did this, not because we do not have the right to such help, but in order to make ourselves a model for you to follow. For even when we were with you, we gave you this rule: "If a man will not work, he shall not eat."
1 Peter 5:2  To the elders among you, I appeal as a fellow elder, a witness of Christ's sufferings and one who also will share in the glory to be revealed: Be shepherds of God's flock that is under your care, serving as overseers--not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not greedy for money, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock. And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away. Young men, in the same way be submissive to those who are older. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble." Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time.
Ecclesiastes 4:12: Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Better a poor but wise youth than an old but foolish king who no longer knows how to take warning.
Matthew 28:19-20: Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."
1 John 5:16:  If anyone sees his brother commit a sin that does not lead to death, he should pray and God will give him life. I refer to those whose sin does not lead to death. There is a sin that leads to death. I am not saying that he should pray about that. All wrongdoing is sin, and there is sin that does not lead to death. We know that anyone born of God does not continue to sin; the one who was born of God keeps him safe, and the evil one cannot harm him. We know that we are children of God, and that the whole world is under the control of the evil one. We know also that the Son of God has come and has given us understanding, so that we may know him who is true. And we are in him who is true--even in his Son Jesus Christ. He is the true God and eternal life.
Proverbs 27:17: As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.
1 Thessalonians 5:12-23Now we ask you, brothers, to respect those who work hard among you, who are over you in the Lord and who admonish you. Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other. And we urge you, brothers, warn those who are idle, encourage the timid, help the weak, be patient with everyone. Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else. Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. Do not put out the Spirit's fire; do not treat prophecies with contempt. Test everything. Hold on to the good. Avoid every kind of evil. May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.
As Christians we are to help each other to obey Gods word.  Sometimes that will be pointing out each others sins.   Sometimes that will be coming along beside someone to help them learn to obey.  Sometimes it will be done with rules.
1 Peter 2:13Submit yourselves for the Lord's sake to every authority instituted among men: whether to the king, as the supreme authority, or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. For it is God's will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish men. Live as free men, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as servants of God. Show proper respect to everyone: Love the brotherhood of believers, fear God, honor the king. Slaves, submit yourselves to your masters with all respect, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh. For it is commendable if a man bears up under the pain of unjust suffering because he is conscious of God. But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.
Sometimes you will throw your pearls to swine.   People don't want to be told they are wrong or that something they are doing is wrong.   Sometimes its because you come at the person with wrong motives but often it is not .   Those are the days where your heart breaks because you know you have done the right thing but the person refused to listen.   Sometimes people can't see beyond their hurt to see your heart.  

We are to help our brothers and sisters in Christ.   We are to be accountable to each other.   We are to correct and rebuke each other.
Galatians 6:1:  Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. If anyone thinks he is something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in himself, without comparing himself to somebody else, for each one should carry his own load. Anyone who receives instruction in the word must share all good things with his instructor. Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.